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When golfer Aaron Rai spoke about his childhood dream of playing on the PGA Tour, something broke open in me. Because I realised I had never had that kind of fire. I meandered, I existed, I functioned. Fear ran my life for decades - fear of being seen, of being heard, of making mistakes. But something has shifted. For the first time, I have dreams. Real ones. And it turns out it is never too late to find them. No matter your age, your history, or how long you spent hiding. Yo

What if a midlife crisis isn't the end of something good, but the beginning of something real? I spent the first half of my life hidden inside a mould that had been shaped for me. This is the story of how I broke out of it and why I think midlife might just be the greatest chance life ever hands you.